We are all different men. Our differences may lie in the style of clothing, in demeanor, in character traits, as well as in many other features that somehow set us apart from the general background. However, there is something that unites us. Indifference to the fair sex. It is biologically established that each of us strive for women, and the main goal in this striving is sexual intercourse. You can argue that there are romantics, there are people for whom sex is not as important as communication and spending time together … I hasten to dissuade you, the overwhelming majority of men still need sex, and those who need it are few. So let's be adults and, without too much antics, admit that sex is good and not having sex is bad. Someone still disagree? Your business.
I have a friend whom I call Casanova to myself. In fact, his name is Constantine, but that's not the point. Wherever he finds himself, in a fun company in a park, at a party at someone's house, or at another, so to speak, event, Kostya is able to quickly figure out available women, and he does it in a fairly short period of time. Surprisingly quickly, having achieved the location of the girl, he soon takes her to his home. Sometimes Kostya even managed to return an hour later and repeat this procedure. His mysterious ease in terms of dating the fair sex is suggestive, isn't there some kind of radar built into his brain that can detect and subdue a girl? Surely, many of us have such a friend, and you also do not understand what is the reason for his success.
Every person has a friend – Casanova
The point is as follows. Research shows that both animals and humans use a number of specific gestures during courtship. Some of them are quite obvious, others are more hidden, but almost all of them are carried out unconsciously. In the animal world, courtship proceeds according to, so to speak, habitual patterns of behavior. For example, males of some species of birds walk around the female, having ruffled feathers and making different sounds. The female herself, usually, does not show any interest in what is happening. The courtship ritual of a person is slightly different from its animal counterpart. Kostya, whom we talked about earlier, showed courting gestures to the girls present. Some of them answered him with appropriate signals, giving Kostya the opportunity to continue courtship on a more intimate level.
We come to the moral of this whole story. The fact is that women are extremely sensitive to all gestures of body language and have a wide range of them. Men, though no less sensitive, often simply do not notice such signals. Therefore, the success of a man in sexual relations directly depends on his ability to give signals of courtship, as well as recognize those that were sent to him.
In this short article, we'll talk about the signals from the human body to show interest and attract a partner. Let's get started.
Male signals
When a person finds himself in the company of the opposite sex, a number of psychological changes take place in him. Muscle tone increases, bags under the eyes and on the face disappear, it straightens, the chest bends forward, and the abdomen is automatically pulled in. In addition to these changes, at the sight of a woman he likes, a man begins to smarten up, and new gestures appear in his movements.
When a man straightens his tie, this is a clear signal to please others.
For example, hands reach for the neck to straighten a tie. If a person does not wear a tie, then he can straighten his collar, brush a non-existent speck of dust from his shoulder, straighten his shirt, jacket or other toilet item. A man can also smooth his hair, trying to look more attractive. The most aggressive gesture in this situation is to place the thumbs behind the belt. This is done in order to accentuate the genital area. Also, a man can turn his body to the woman he likes and put his foot in her direction. At the same time, the look becomes intimate and lingers on the girl longer than it should be. However, all these gestures bring as much positive results as hitting the water with a stick while fishing. Women, as we shall now see, have a much more impressive arsenal of far more effective techniques.
Female signals
There are gestures common to both sexes, such as touching hair, straightening clothes, hands on hips, extended intimate gaze, and frequent eye contact. Excitement causes dilated pupils and blush. Women can use the thumbs-up gesture, although it is purely masculine, but the fair sex uses it more subtly. Only one thumb is placed in the belt (in a purse or pocket). Now let's look at gestures that are specific to women only.
Hair shake
A sharp movement of the head is made in order to throw the hair off the face or shoulders onto the back. This gesture can be used even when the girl has a short haircut.
Demonstration of the wrist
A woman interested in a potential partner may sometimes show him her wrists, which have always been considered one of the most erogenous zones. When a girl conducts a dialogue with a man, she tries to keep her palms in his field of vision, it is especially easy for smokers to do this.
Demonstration of a wrist by a girl is a sign of interest in a partner
Lipstick
Bright red lipstick has been used by women since time immemorial to attract male attention to themselves. It is believed that this is a kind of symbolic imitation of the redness of the genitals during sexual intercourse.
Red lipstick is considered to mimic the reddening of the genitals in women.
Legs apart
The hips swing harder than usual to emphasize the girl's dignity.
Sidelong glance
The woman looks at the man, slightly dropping her eyelids, until the latter pays attention to her, after which she quickly looks away. This signal creates a playful peeping sensation.
Slightly parted mouth, wet lips
Some sexologists believe that this gesture is an imitation of oneself, since it depicts the female genitals. The lips are moistened either with the tongue or with cosmetics, but in both cases, this signal makes a woman sexually attractive and desirable.
Slightly parted mouth, wet lips by Monica Bellucci
Feminine leg crossing
There are three poses used by women to express their flirting behavior:
- Bent knee. In this case, the woman sits with one leg bent under the friend and pointing sharper than the knee at the person to whom she is interested. This is a fairly free pose, giving you the opportunity to flirtatiously expose your knees. Playing with a removed shoe also speaks of a free pose.
- Interlacing of legs. It is considered one of the most attractive poses. One leg is pressed closely against the other in order to create the impression of increased muscle tone, which clearly demonstrates the readiness for sexual contact.
- Slowly crossing legs in front of a man's eyes (yes, yes, just like in the movie 'Basic Instinct').
Feminine crossing of legs expresses flirtatious behavior
Gently stroking the thighs with a hand speaks of the expectation of male touch, often when using this gesture, women speak in a low voice.
Finally
This is just a small part of the list of gestures inherent in girls when flirting with men. From the outside it may seem that most of them already look obvious, but the main snag is that men sometimes do not notice even the most frank gestures. As mentioned earlier, the main secret is the ability to notice the signals of the fair sex and respond to them in a timely manner. The subsequent actions are purely individual for each girl and depend only on you, to be more precise, on your charisma, the ability to find a common language and recognize what kind of person is in front of you and how to find an approach to him. Perhaps there are not very many of the listed gestures, but the ability to distinguish them from the number of ordinary body movements will take you to a new level in building relationships with the opposite sex. Develop yourself, improve your knowledge of psychology and reading sign language.
Save your time and good luck on the love front!
