There is no doubt that the vast majority of serious relationships between a man and a woman begin with the first date. Let me be old-fashioned, but the first date, like the first impression, is a decisive factor in the further development of events between the couple. If you want to make a good impression, then first of all, you need to know how to dress for a date.
Today we will analyze a few tips to help a man decide what to wear on a first date. It doesn't matter if you are dating 'blindly' or have known each other for many years. You have to get the right outfit for your date to be confident in your style.
Do you think that by charming the girl with your charm and charm and inviting her to the first date, you have done the main job ?! No matter how it is. Perhaps you were able to take her phone and forced to give in to your invitation to a cafe or restaurant, but this is just an excuse and an opportunity to see each other again. No more.
How to dress for a date
On the way to your goal (someone is to find a person for life; someone is to find a girl to spend the evening and night with), there should be as few mistakes as possible, because there may no longer be a second chance . Where to begin?
First, you must decide exactly where you are going to go on your first date. I will not give my recommendations on which is better to go to a restaurant or go ice skating. But, in my opinion, going to the movies, for example, is not the best option. Sitting for 2 hours, while chewing popcorn and trying to ridiculously throw your hand over a girl – the plot of a classic comedy.
Secondly, the guidelines and style that I will cover should not be a strict plan for action. I hope you understand that your own sense of style should gradually develop in yourself. Therefore, if you think that this or that wardrobe item does not suit you, feel free to change it. The main rule is to feel confident! But we'll talk about this a little later.
So, how to dress for a date and what tips you can take a man to note, we will analyze further.
Date in nature / walk in the park or city
Who hasn't had a date in nature or in the park? Each teenager, not having a lot of money, in 90% of cases arranges a date in the park (statistics “from the head”, I did not look for reliable sources). In your younger years, a walk under the evening lights seems like something magical and unforgettable, and a picnic on the lawn is the best opportunity to get to know each other in an informal setting.
The best outfit for outdoor dating is practical, casual. If you do not know where you will be taken, it is better not to wear white or light-colored pants / chinos. As soon as you sit on the grass or bench, immediately plant the stain. The best choice would be denim jeans in dark blue or indigo, as well as chinos in dark colors: blue, dark blue, dark gray. From above, I would advise you to wear a light T-shirt and be sure to bring a sweater or, better yet, a cardigan. If it gets chilly, you can cover your girlfriend's shoulders and prove yourself a gentleman. From shoes, it is best to choose classic borgi, monks or moccasins (you can read more about men's classic shoes here). If you are going to walk a lot – white classic sneakers.
Men's gray cotton cardigan 
Types of men's t-shirts, gray hanley t-shirt 
Classic duffle coat 
Blue casual t-shirt 
Man in a blue shirt with a button collar 
Types of men's t-shirts, polo shirt 
Olive jacket, navy blue pants 
Navy blue chinos, burgundy pullover with a light shirt. brown shoes
Date at a cafe / dinner at a regular restaurant
There are situations when it is convenient to make a date in a cafe or an ordinary, not 'pretentious' restaurant. For example, after the end of the pair, you can go with a classmate to the nearest cafe and have a cup of coffee with a piece of cake.
In this case, I recommend adding some formalities to the casual dress code and instead of a T-shirt and sweater, wear a casual shirt and a casual jacket / sports jacket. If you don't have a jacket, you can replace it with a V-neck blazer. From footwear – classic men's shoes or good classic (not sports!) White sneakers. The result will be an almost smart casual style, in which you can even go to a club with a girl.
A man in beige trousers, a denim shirt, a navy blazer. 
Man in white shirt, plaid trousers and brown trousers 
Man in gray pants, brown sweater and white shirt 
Man in navy blue chinos, brown borgs, gray blazer and t-shirt 
Man in navy blue chinos, gray blazer and white t-shirt
Dinner at a good restaurant
If you invited a girl to a good restaurant, and this is already quite a serious date, then you should dress appropriately.
You must have at least one classic suit. It should be worn on dates where a formal dress code is required. In addition to the classic suit, there should be a classic shirt in light colors. Wearing a suit, you should pick up classic shoes. In addition, accessories such as a tie, cufflinks, watches, and a pocket square can also be recommended for use.
On the pages of our site you can learn how to combine all the listed wardrobe items and accessories, as well as learn how to tie a tie and fold a pocket square.
A man in a classic blue suit and a light polka dot shirt 
Man in dark chinos, blue plaid jacket and dark shirt 
Man in a gray classic suit, blue shirt and scarf 
A man in a three-piece suit, brown shoes and a light shirt 
Man in purple chinos, light blazer and striped shirt
Other Tips
- Do not wear black items or overly bright, defiant wardrobe items. You have a holiday – a first date, why wear black mourning? Bright colors, for example, red or bright orange, will distract your interlocutor or even worse, annoy. Recommended colors: dark blue, beige, brown, white. I do not recommend: black, orange, bright green, red. Colors for the bold. and self-confident: dark green, burgundy, dark purple.
- Your clothes should be clean and tidy. The shirt should be ironed. Shoes should be brushed. No hole socks.
- On your first date, wear whatever you feel comfortable in. But this does not mean that you should come in sweatpants and a sports jacket.
- Don't wear the clothes you just bought unless you are 100% sure about them. New shoes can chafe. The new suit may not fit your figure. A new shirt may come with a label that will chafe your neck or body. Why should you be distracted by these misunderstandings?
Personal care
An important detail that should never be neglected is self-care.
- Rule number one – hair should be trimmed and properly washed. Nails should be trimmed. Read the article on men's manicure. If you wear a beard, make sure it is trimmed and styled. If you shave, you should shave without cuts. I recommend reading this article for tips on how to shave gently. Hopefully not worth reminding you to take a shower before your date?
- Rule number two – pick a good, lightly scented men's perfume. But don't overdo it! There is nothing worse than a man, from whom he smells caustic perfume at a distance of 5 meters.
- Rule number three – fresh breath, but preferably no chewing gum.
- Rule number four – put a regular cotton handkerchief in the back pocket of your trousers / pants or inside your jacket pocket. Believe me, sometimes a handkerchief offered to a girl on time works wonders.
In conclusion
Having examined a few tips and tricks, I think you have figured out the general principles of how to dress for a date and not lose your face. The main thing to remember is that it is not what you are wearing that matters, but how you wear it. If you have never worn a classic business suit, then you should not wear it on a date. I assure you, at first glance you can see whether a person wore trousers, a jacket, shoes or not. The first date is not a field for experiments in clothes, so you should adhere to the listed tips for a man who is going to a meeting with a lady.
Good luck on your date!
